This are the recommendations by the Autism Research Institute. Not everything listed here will work on every child, so its up to us to try different things until we find what helps our kids.

Improve Diet (veggies, Meats, organic)
Food Allergies
GFCF Diet
Vitamin/ Mineral supplementation (Super Nu-Thera from Kirkman Labs)
High-Dose Vitamin B6 & Magnesium
Essential Faty Acids
Gut Treatments

* Anti-fungals
* Anti-virals
* Probiotics
* Digestive Enzymes

Amino Acids
Melatonin (at night time for sleep)
Thyroid Supplements
Sulfation
Glutathione
Chelation (DMSA with ALA)-reported improvement in 73% of cases
Immune System Regulation
HBOT (hiperbatic oxigen therapy)

Do some of you find that your Dan dr. do a individual program or a cookie cuter program for your kids. I know alot of stuff is so needed in our kido's but each one is so diffrent like you stated. My Dan dr. told me to give my son Cleate Mate and my son just could not take it. This is so hard when you turn to them for help???